Alright, so this post is simply about paying an ounce of respect to people that don't deserve ____ from you. I like to label them as "constant downers." Ranging from the ones that complain about life religiously. The hardshells that put up a so called wall of "greatness" but covertly HATES you.
They usually tend to look like this... on the INSIDE:
Uh Oh I feel a rant making way. Here we go: "I mean who wants to be around Mr. & Mrs. Humpty Dumpty all the Damn time! You fell off the wall but do you have to knock me right over too! Yeesh! *Sitting hear peacefully enjoying the shade, no time to ruin my parade* And aaaanother thing!!! Mr. Grouch- Yeah you? The one on Sesame street. Puhleeeez! Not everyone wants to live in a garbage can and eat trash daily. Your misery is simply Not my misery. However, I believe I have a Universal sense of responsibilty to help my fellow man. (That is where my niceness comes in) But once you try to trip me, put me down and drag me into that trash can with you, I will swiftly walk on by. Next time, I'll carry my lavender febreeze to keep me guarded at all times. The smell of Hate is extremely intoxicating." I'm done ranting now!
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Side note: these "constant downers" are sadly our so called friends, strangers on the boardwalk, acquaintances, professors, the black cat across the street and WORST of all F-a-m-i-l-y.
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Okay on a more semi light hearted serious note, here's my take.
I've learned (which most of you should already know) that you cannot please everyone. Learn to say And say it with me "NO." The happier you are, the more people will tend to hate you for it. The reason behind it, is that these people suffer from a chronic illness I call Hateonit Syndrome.
Symptoms that may occur are: jealousy, envious dysplasia, deep rooted emotional self affliction, low self-esteem, pessimism, fits of rage and running diarrhea of the mouth; Accumatively, this is straight up NEGATIVITY. Not sure of any cure yet. Nevertheless, I am working diligently and steadily in the lab mixing the cones, ols and anes together to come up with a remedial concoction. This could some take some major time. The FDA and DEA processes may put a slumber on these medications before intake of human consumption. So I guess, off the market or OTC (over the counters) ranging from heightened confidence, purpose, happiness maybe the only means of rectifying this growing epidemic currently.
I'll be that friend that will sing tunes of well deserved compliments and genuinely support your endeavors. However! I repeat. HOWEVER, DO NOT take MY kindness for YOUR weakness! I am viewed as the "silent type" because I am not outwardly in your face confrontational. I only speak if I am compassionatly compelled to or care enough *rolls eyes* I have too much on my mind to be remotely entertained with minute distractions. I like to #keepitclassyalways# That is my stance.
Unless....you would like to tune in & enjoy these tunes of "Hi Hater"--->
OH Wait! Ooops wrong tune, let me change the station: (*sigh* this is more fitting)
I am, an observer and deal with the cards that I am dealt, without having to compromise who I am. I just DO NOT have the ENERGY to be angry, hold grudges and be condescending to others. Too much of that energy is wasting away into pilars of stress. I can honestly say *smiles from ear to ear* I definitely have the energy to BE HAPPY! I want more out of life than worrying about what he or she does.
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On another rant: DO NOT expect me to make enemies for you. You may have a problem with "Mary Beth" BUT that doens't mean I have to be on bad terms with her too. And DO NOT insist that I take sides between two mutual confidants. I hate playing monkey in the middle. I'm neutrally conserved. *And don't harvest bad feelings, talk ish and tell me about it.* You can vent, which is perfectly healthy yet, venting on the same topic daily seems a bit much to me. GET OVER IT! And let's talk about something else.
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In the past, I've often deamped myself to a lesser accord to jump start others feelings. But I believe if I harness greatness, why hide it? Why be a lesser you? A friend, a significant other should always compliment you and also be on the same page as you....If not, please do me a favor and don't take in basket cases. I learned the hard way.
We all go through whirlwinds of issues; no one is ever perfect. Those “constant downers” needs to understand, we are all on the same boat of life's gambles. BUT you can also be thrown overboard if your ass get out of line!
Haters take notes....
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On another rant: DO NOT expect me to make enemies for you. You may have a problem with "Mary Beth" BUT that doens't mean I have to be on bad terms with her too. And DO NOT insist that I take sides between two mutual confidants. I hate playing monkey in the middle. I'm neutrally conserved. *And don't harvest bad feelings, talk ish and tell me about it.* You can vent, which is perfectly healthy yet, venting on the same topic daily seems a bit much to me. GET OVER IT! And let's talk about something else.
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In the past, I've often deamped myself to a lesser accord to jump start others feelings. But I believe if I harness greatness, why hide it? Why be a lesser you? A friend, a significant other should always compliment you and also be on the same page as you....If not, please do me a favor and don't take in basket cases. I learned the hard way.
We all go through whirlwinds of issues; no one is ever perfect. Those “constant downers” needs to understand, we are all on the same boat of life's gambles. BUT you can also be thrown overboard if your ass get out of line!
Haters take notes....
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